how often are you on the receiving end of a
You Should !

how do you feel when the S-phrase hits?

do you direct the S-phrase at others,
and how do they react when you should - them?

there are times when we need to give each other
feedback and direction

but feedback and direction are not easy to give,
and not easy to take

what are we to do -

how do we effectively give and accept advice
within parent-child, husband-wife,
supervisor-supervisee relationships?

it is something to PonderAbout

one resource is
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will
Talk (1999) by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish